![]() ![]() In a conditional love relationship, the behavior is not fair or reasonable. You mentally, physically, or emotionally abuse your partner You may require your partner to wait on your hand and foot, or you will not accept them. If they were to lose their job, the relationship would be over. For example, you might be with someone only because of their money. Your motives may also be completely unfair. If you are in an unhealthy relationship, you may make unfair choices. With conditional love, true love was never there because you were only in the relationship because you wanted to “get something” out of it (more money, a higher social status, etc.). Usually, with unconditional love, you were in love in the beginning and now are able to accept the flaws of another person. However, conditional love is not much better than unconditional love. You might be in the relationship because of your idea of “love,” which may be unfair because you are basing your feelings on ideas rather than facts. Unconditional love relationships like this are usually pure but can be flawed because you may not really be seeing things clearly. It’s good to have your eyes open for the cons that come with the pros in a relationship.Īn unconditional love relationship has more love than it does the evaluation of the other person’s flaws. While this can seem like a beautiful thing, it isn’t necessarily the most healthy thing in the world, especially if you never recognized their bad traits. Instead, you accept every part of them without question. ![]() With unconditional love, you are with a person without any regard for their faults. The Difference Between Conditional and Unconditional Love If you donate a kidney to me, I will pay you $4 Million.If you take me out on fancy dates, I will make sure you look good in public.If you buy me an engagement ring, I will stay with you.If you continue to have sex with me daily, I will not cheat on you.If you buy me a new car, I will continue to be your girlfriend.What Are Examples Of Conditional Love Thoughts? What To Do If You Are In a Conditional Relationship.You expect your partner to accept your negative behavior You cannot remain faithful to your partner You cannot deal with problems in a healthy way You are an emotionally unhealthy individual ![]()
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